Advice for dating a shy man
The opposite is true as well – just because a girl is hugging every guy at a club and twerking on the dance floor doesn’t mean that she has genuine desire and passion on the inside, as it could be all a show or a desperate attempt to attract attention that she is missing so much.
So, don’t perceive the low-key demeanor, modest clothing and quiet voice as negative signs.
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So I want you to know that I am putting this out there to help and inspire everyone to have more dating success, to point fingers. ” and pretty much any sentence that begins with ‘why didn’t you,’ it’s like nails on a chalkboard.
I can tell you from a guy’s perspective that when a woman says things like: “Why didn’t you call? Those kinds of statements will immediately put a guy on the defensive rather than motivating him to change and he’ll probably withdraw emotionally as a result… I would say the core reason of this is that it attacks a guy’s sense of freedom and feeling of acknowledgment. Well, when a woman starts down this chain of “Why didn’t you…” it feels to a guy as if she isn’t noticing all of the other things he is doing for a relationship. It’s perfectly normal and healthy to want a relationship with all the good qualities: connection, chemistry, understanding, intimacy, attentiveness and on and on.
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But neediness is not gender-specific – guys make the mistake of being “needy” too!So, if you a meet a girl who is actually shy, she might just be much more emotionally available for love and attachments than all the other ones.And if you are looking for a serious connection with a woman, a little patience at first with a shy girl will likely pay off big time later. If she isn't speaking too much at first, it's not because she's disinterested. It just takes her a little longer to come out of her shell.